Problems are like unwanted hair, you remove one for another to replace. Every human beings have problems, some times people end their lives as a result of this problems, and a lot or million end up breaking their relationship with one another as a result of this problems, sometimes when this problems linger for long, some eliminate their fellow human, that are directly or indirectly connected to their problem, just to free themselves from it, sometimes this problem raises anger in the mind of individual such that people end up fighting one another as a result of lacking self-control, well, the question is can we really find these problems? The ANSWER is NO but there exist, HOW? In the MIND of human, in fact problem are just abstract, there cannot be seen nor touch but there exist, it is just like saying that a girl is beautiful, jet you can't touch the beauty, so beauty is only ones perception, so that is why philosopher do say that beauty is in the eye of beholder, so same is applicable to problems. That is to say, problems exist as a result of one perception how you feel about a situation, how you position your thought, that make this thing called problem to exist in our minds. We can equally sees that there are people that have greater problems jet they go about their normal businesses, without letting this problem to bother them, whereas there are those who will find themselves is the same situation, but go about complaining, crying, weeping, begging and at some point questioning God. Now let consider the saying of Jesus, He said can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?, which we know that they can't no matter how long we keep this thought in mind. Now why should we then worry about our problem, when they only exist in the mind, we can always overcome this feeling if we go about our problems with the right mind set and attitude, all you need to do is to change your present perception, your view about the situation, embrace a positive mind set, and always be optimistic about everything. See each of this life problems as a stepping stone not as a stumbling block or obstacle, the scripture say, He (God) cannot allow us to be tested above our abilities, for this single reason, see yourself as an over comer not as a loser, and always bear in mind that you are the one that create this problem (in our minds) no other person but you, sooner as you learn to become the master of yourself the earlier the better, don't engage yourself into drinking in order to forget your worry, cause when the influence of the alcohol is gone, the feeling is double, instead of that, call friends that will make you happy, play video game, watch match, stay with a good friend to avoid idle mind set, i hope with this tips you will be able to go about your problem, the last but not the least always PRAY.