Value is one of the key things that keep a relationship healthy. Look for someone that can increase your value worth the person must be able to make you better. Marry a man who will nourish you and not punish you. Marry a lady who will submit to you and not insult you. Value is one of the nutrients that make love grow. Add value to yourself, make yourself better in order to better the life of your partner. Value make you valuable. What makes you precious are your values not your clothes or your swags. As a lady, don't just go for a man with cars who will leave scars with you, go for a man with good character. Go for someone with a vision. As a guy, don't just go after beauty, go after character. Don't start a relationship for pleasure, start it for purpose. Start a relationship for assignment not just assessment. Don't go after a man because of what he drives, look for what drives a man. Ask yourself if the person you are in a relationship with has make you better. If yes, keep it up. But if No, try and work things out and let him/her know what he/she must do. - By Danjuma Iliya.