The race to marry a BIG BOY is what is now in vogue. Most ladies nowadays can't function if there is no cash involved. The urge for material things has changed the STORY OF LOVE. Do NOT make money your only priority when choosing your spouse, only spend it when necessary. There's more to marriage than money alone. A man with a good heart is better than a rich man with the heart of a beast. Most women say they want security in life, so they won’t date the poor. I know so many Carpenters and Bricklayers that have built their houses and fed their families through their hard work. Sadly, girls hardly look their way. If he's not rich today doesn't mean he will be poor for life as long as he is hardworking. True happiness does not come from gaining material possessions. Putting God first matters a lot. The happiness and security of your life is YOUR responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life. HAPPINESS IS PRICELESS. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a Range Rover Sports than laugh on a bicycle, have never experienced pain in their life. Some relationship mistakes can cause life regrets. Many young women have blindly turned themselves to TEST DRIVE VEHICLE for the love of material things. What qualifies you as a great woman is not in designer Prada shoes and Gucci bags. It's you making God your friend. It’s in your good heart, good characters and real personality. When a real man finds a wife in you he will never let you go, this is guaranteed. It’s funny how material women blame men for breaking their heart and conclude men are the same. A man who wins your love with cash may not stay for long. Real men don't settle down with fake women, they might be your temporary server but they'll leave as soon as the coast is cleared. The only place you can find a fake woman is temporarily in the heart of a foolish man. Looking for a real man when you are fake is like looking for a live fish in the desert, don't fool your own mind. Life is not a joke.....You can earn the wealth now and remain sad in years to come. The choice is yours! Written by Danjuma Iliya.