She had undressed him- the married man she's been having an affair with. The two had done this many times, had sex in hotels, in her house which he pays rent for; but this time it was different. She gave him a blow job, talked dirty, kissed him, twerked naked for him, belly danced on top of him, splashed her boobs on his face; but he laid there lifeless, no hardness on his penis. "What's wrong with you today my love? You don't want me? I have been dying to get naked with you but you're not in the mood". He pushed her away and sat up saying, "My love, that's what my wife used to call me before I started fooling around with you. My wife knows I am cheating on her, she can tell it by the look in my eyes. I can't do this anymore, what we are doing is stupid, I am a married man. As you touched me, all I could think about was my children, my family. Why I'm I ruining what I have? What for? Besides sex and good times, what exactly is this we are having? I have missed my daughter's parent's day in school just to spend time with you in a hotel, I tell my son I cannot pay for his piano lessons yet I can afford to monthly pay your rent in this furnished apartment, I lie I am in a business trip so that I can go for getaways with you.. What nonsense is this? You are ruining me, ruining the most valuable thing I have built; I am allowing you to ruin my family". He touched the wedding ring on his finger, stood up and dressed up and continued, "When you talked dirty to me, I recalled the vows I said on my wedding day. I meant them, I don't know why I strayed. You and I should never have happened, this was a big mistake. This stops right now, I don't want to hear from you, I am not your love, I am someone's husband and a father" he said as he walked out. She sat there naked in bed. She couldn't say anything. How do you fight for something that is not your own when you are the intruder, the thief, the cheap woman? He is married to his wife, but she has been just the other woman he sees on the side...So cheap, that she can be dumped in a matter of seconds... She's never felt so low and ashamed of herself. If she is that beautiful, amazing, sexy and intelligent; why can't she find her own man instead? Written By Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech.