I have come to realize that what a man needs to keep a serious relationship with a woman is not sex. If it were so, then rich guys will not keep only one woman as a wife, but pay many to satisfy their sexual desires. If a man has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing other than your body, and he will become too aggressive to achieve his aim even at the extend of blackmailing/threatening you. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never his primary need. Many young girls think because they are sexually active the greatest gift they have to give to their men is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which the man will never leave them. Others even go to the extent of getting pregnant, thinking that will tie him down. No! You are making yourself a single mother. Marriage is above that. Some whom their sexual dexterity could not win them the heart of a man, maybe fortunate to meet a guy who desperately seek a wife too and finally marries them. But unfortunately, few years after the wedding the marriage falls on rocks cause the man can no longer bare her nonchalant attitude. This is cause they think all what matters is good sex and no submission. They will never stop remembering their men of gender equality. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will only satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will SUBMIT herself to him. I will let you know that "every woman has vagina but not every woman has character (humility)." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry, an outstanding lady among others. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you. The bible says "wife, submit to your husband."(Ephesians 5:22-24) The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women. Sadly, many young ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying, "As for me I don't want any man to control me." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to such a woman, but adventurers will come for what you have to offer. Even serious men become adventurers due to your callous character and likewise adventurers change to seriousness and won't want to lose you due to your virtuous character. The funniest thing is women will want a man to treat them as Queens but will not want to submit to him. Queens don't get marry to commoners but Kings, and Kings are respected by their subordinates. Crown your man the King and you will automatically become his Queen. The necessary condition for any serious relationship is LOVE but the sufficient and most important condition is CHARACTER (SUBMISSION). A housemaid whom a man may not love originally can conveniently win a man's heart due to her character (submissiveness) if the wife is with a callous attitude. SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP NOW.......By Shaleo Mwelwa.