You continue clubbing, drinking, sleeping around without care, as you smoke weed with your boyfriend, thinking it's cool. Let me tell you the truth my sister, that guy will soon marry someone decent and use you as a testimony in church one day! Ladies lose a lot in relationships than men. You’re the one who will carry the pregnancy, even after drinking silly, and a man taking advantage of you at a night club! How will you identify the father of the child, when you were so drunk to notice a man who slept with you? Unless the Lord catches up with a man, he can do anything in the dark and run away with it, but for you girls, let me ask you, even if you abort, (God forbid) will you be aborting daily or monthly? Whether you like it or not, let me tell you straight. Drinking beer or wine is never safe for a woman! You may say you do responsible drinking but i beg to differ, because women are weak in the presence of any intoxicating drinks, and men take advantage of that, because it's easy for a lady to lose her sense of reasoning after one or two drinks, than a man. With all this, I’m not defending men and saying they are the legal drinkers - never. If it were my desire, I would push all beer into the pacific, and replace it with juice for all to enjoy. It's unfortunate Some girls notice they are pregnant, yet they don't know who is the father of the kid, thus many abortions are done to hide the shame of a kid you can't identify the father and it all came by clubbing! Look at this verse from the scriptures with me. Habakkuk 2:15 says, “Woe to him who gives his neighbor drink, pouring your inflaming wine until they are drunk, so that you may gaze at their naked bodies. The question is, who are good at doing this, as the bible says, if not men? Inasmuch as the bible says woe to them, girls should at-least also avoid it in totality, because once drunk, a woman's body is easy prey for predators-who are always men. I went to Rongai to visit a friend, and while taking a soda at a certain shop, I overheard some men talking of a lady, just passed them. To them, she is always so sober, serious and non-nonsense but they had a bet they will sleep with her one day! As they looked for ways, they realized she comes home drunk some days, so they followed her to a club where she drinks, sat close as they observed her, and in her drunken state, in the stupor of her drinking, they took advantage of the moment, took her home and even slept with her, in her own house for hours, before leaving. Yes, it's wrong, but look at the verse again, some people make our girls drunk to see them naked. Amazingly, during the day, she passed them never even recognized she was taken advantage of, by men who were saying hi. She replied to their hi with her non-nonsense look, yet in reality, at night when she was held by two men taking her home, all took advantage of her drunkenness, and saw the nakedness she has been hiding from them, in her sober state. Let me ask, suppose she became pregnant, will such a girl pinpoint a man to the act? No-way, unless she frames another man! Another days I saw another girl, after getting used and drunk, her boyfriend even stabbed her and ran away she cried and we woke up to only to realize a girl in a pool of blood, yet drunk! Tell me, what was she doing out at midnight, when other sober people are home and relaxing in bed, waiting to go to work tomorrow? Why drunk silly be until you can't even notice someone slept with you? Some men even make a line on some of this ladies who say they do responsible drinking, after the beer party! If they don't get diseases, in the morning when they wake up, they can't notice what happened yesterday night. Many times when men take you out for a drink, there goal is one, sleep with you for free, and it does not matter how intelligent you're no woman is safe in the presence of predators waylaying her with drinks, for a free a moment of pleasure! You can take that to the bank, because it's the truth In my ministry on Facebook, I hear so much about married men who woke up in bed with this single sister. She can't even notice how she arrived in some man's house, but looking at herself, she realizes she is naked and in the presence of a naked man! She wants to run, but how now! How did i even arrive here? “she asks herself, but her desire for drinks and clubbing, makes her easy prey for the men to make them as drunk, and as the bible says, the goal is to see their privates! Some of our young girls make me feel for this generation. When i was growing up, we could never be out by 6pm, and imagine I'm a man, but this days girls are out into the wee hours of the morning clubbing and doing everything silly, yet their parents can’t warn them. It's unfortunate some mothers and fathers alike, are all drunkards, so girls grow up without knowledge and direction in life, only to get scars and harm in their journey of life. Today i have a word to girls who have no fear of God, and clubbing is their motto. Dear girls, you are losing out! Even if you do not fear God, listen to this brother since i care avoid clubbing like a plaque. Stop beer, wines and spirits with immediate effect. Smoking weed has serious effects too, on your reproductive system. Every woman wants to be a mother one day, so why destroy your reproductive system with weed! You just harm your body for no reason. Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19). God just loaned it to us this body, for his glory. At the end of the day, the man you club with, as i said earlier, will never marry a fellow woman who clubs. They go for decent women who can make their mother proud of them. No man wants to arrive home to his parents drunk, with a drunk woman. Never! That is why some wise ungodly men who want to marry, they come to church to pick a girl for marriage, before going where they know best. No man dares marry a drunk girl like himself Never! Again, for those who want to change their ways, and wondering how, remember Jesus said, "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28) Come to Jesus and he will help you come out of such habits, for his glory and praise...I have told you enough. - By Danjuma Iliya.