You met him on Saturday, slept with him on Sunday and on Monday he stopped picking your calls. You start calling him a USER, well maybe he's not a USER, may be you're the DISPOSABLE. Of course there's no set time to make love to a new guy as long as you're emotionally ready. Love making doesn't guarantee anything in a relationship. Sleeping with a guy the first day sometimes won't make him leave you and waiting until wedding night can't make him stay, you can never keep a person who is not ready to be kept, but if you're very easy to get, you will be easier to forget. Don't blame the mirror without washing your face. If you appear like garbage people will treat you like trash. Stop opening your legs before opening your heart. Always remember that in a relationship a horrible past can affect a spotless future. - By Danjuma Iliya.