One of the problems confronting singles who want to marry is the choice of a marriage partner. To Adam and Eve, they had no problem because God chose for them. Sometimes men find it hard on how to start their proposals to the ladies they love. Sometimes some ladies too find it hard on whether to say yes or no to the proposals. The funny thing is that sometimes the person you like will not look at your face; the one you don't like will keep knocking at the door of your heart. And you may fall in and out of love trying to figure out if the person is the right choice for you or not. It is sometimes stressful and confusing when dealing with such issues. I asked men “what do you hate most when it comes to a marriage proposal? To them when they propose, and the lady will say give me some time to think about it, some can be several days, men during those days, one day is like one year when waiting for the traffic light to be green, red or still wait. To them waiting for too long is frustrating. I also asked women “what do you hate most when it comes to a proposal? To them, men not proposing when they love them, but talking on boring issues like “how many dogs does your father have? Your house gate is so beautiful, “Who cleans your daddy's car? To them loving a man who does not propose is painful. Today men and women are hunting for partners online, at funeral grounds, schools, in churches, in magazines, and other places. Remember, every choice you make has a consequence. Be careful so that your feelings do not dictate for you on the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. If you buy impulsively at a shop you regret at home. Pray more about it before you act. Seek guidance...Danjuma Iliya.