The mature learns to walk away from people and situations that threaten their success in life, peace of mind, values, morals, self-respect and self-worth. But the story is different when it comes to boys. Instead of them following their dreams and goals in life, most either divert in exchange for girls or try to add girls to it. Some are successful in getting the girl but unsuccessful with their goal and eventually they lose the girl as well. Ladies follow a man with goals, a man who has something to show for their direction in life, not a man who has none. The reason why many boys are chasing girls today is because of that. If you have what the woman needs, you don't need to beg, convince or deceive her. If guys understand that a woman is looking for a man with goals and will stop chasing them but rather chase their goals, then one day, these ladies will follow them. A woman cannot follow a man who has nowhere going in life. A woman cannot follow a man who has no roof over their head, a woman cannot follow a man who has no job, a woman cannot follow a man who is struggling to stand on his feet. Here we have boys in school who were chasing their goals but decided to put that on hold and rather go chasing ladies. Some combine their academic work with chasing girls and at the end of their course they come out average when they had all it takes to hold a first class degree. Due to that, they don't end up in their dream job and position. Today, lots of guys who have re-sit to write in various schools as a result of girls they were following. The time they were supposed to devote or dedicate to their studies, they spent it having fun or chasing ladies. The little resources that you had to invest into your dreams or future you decided to waste it as feeding fee to a girlfriend. The money for the business, you used it to impress a girlfriend, when asked, you claim you were investing in a wife to be. This alone can render you hopeless, poor and frustrating in the nearest future, pursue your goal then you will never have to chase a girl a day in your life, your achievement will speak great of you and make you stand out as a model to others and try to put away things that will hinder you from progressing. - By Danjuma Iliya.