Lots of men are so sick today because of the presence of the woman in their lives. A girl who forces them to meet all their needs and that of their family and friends. They have no call credit on their phones but have bought more than enough for their girlfriends who don't use it to call them but call others and only flash them for more credit when it runs out. There are guys who have phones which really need a change but could not because they have spent all their money to get the latest version of a phone for their girlfriends. Guys have less data on their phones, and have to switch off the data after every update whilst they have secured enough data for their girlfriends who never turn on their data, but spend all their time online chatting with other boys. It is sad to know how guys pay for university fees for the girls they are dating yet they don't have such qualifications and they don't pursue such even when they have the opportunity, whilst some are just High School Leavers. Many of these guys ride in public bus (Trotro) but their girlfriends ride with taxis and Uber at the expense of the guy's wallet. No wonder you see most overreacting, becoming more jealous, warning and fighting other guys to stay off their girlfriends. The funny part of this sad story is when the guys footing these bills find out their girlfriends are chasing guys who offer nothing or don't spend on them. The truth is, just as desperate girls throw themselves on any guy, these weak guys also accept all sort of offers. You claim you love a lady so much, and spend all your coins on her, yet it feels like you are bound to lose her at any time, but you keep fooling yourself in the name of love. If you are such a guy out there, your name is "the weak man", grow up. A weak man needs to understand that a real woman won't love you because of what you give her; she will love you even while you are broke. But a fake woman will love you until you are broke. Girl! Your boyfriend is not a supermarket, where you get all your wants. Friends are meant to look after each other, not a place where you constantly go for shopping without trying to reciprocate by showing some care to this weak guys who cannot boldly walk out of a girl who dry them up like stock fish. You as a guy should know what is not working in your life, and quickly change direction for your own good, than trying to offer things you can’t spend on your own well-being. Principle of nature demand that, “you do unto others what you want others to do unto you”, so if you have found yourself where your girlfriend had use your pocket for her shopping without some level of commitment in that relationship, please stop keeping such girls, except you want to ruin your future. - By Danjuma Iliya.