It is very shameful to see how responsible ladies get unwanted pregnancy for guys who has no interest or plan to marry them. In fact, it is painful and embarrassing, but i found out that most of these ladies fall into such mess for many reasons, which can be avoided. One of them is laziness. secondly, in a relationship, when a man shows you true love, calls you regularly, take you out frequently, recharge your phone and provide all your needs, you feel on top of the world , but the big question now is "what do you think you can give to reciprocate such love? This is where the problem always comes in. Now that you have nothing to give than to give your most affordable (sex). What then do you expect? Ladies must learn to realize that in a relationship, there are many ways to return love and not by giving out their body. Do you know that if God were man, some ladies would have bribed Him with sex, because, they are stingy and lazy to give Him thanks and praises? You must do away with that mentality of believing that it is men that supposed to give, when you are not yet his wife. Think of it, if you are in the position of man in a relationship what is your own benefit? Sex? Please don’t be lazy learn to do something tangible and memorable so as not to abuse your body (The temple of God) before marriage. - By Danjuma Iliya.